This circle of life...

I haven't even started yet and already I hate the process. The entire process. Are we there yet? Are we there yet?? Are we there yet??? SCREAAAAAM!!! Why does a process, any process, seem horrific when damn near everyone goes through the same process at some point or another. WOuldn't the fact that 80% of the population has gone through something and come out ok eliminate the fear of the same something for others about to go through it? Does any of this even make sense.